Sunday, December 28, 2025

Mellow Christmas 2025

Our living room all ready for guests on Christmas Day. The new gas fireplace was a nice addition to the festivities.

Instead of traditional Christmas stockings, I made up gift bags for the guests. Cards from my sisters Diane and Betty, and a knit figurine from my friend Linda, are in the middle.

 Mia wore her mermaid suit — a body-length tube of fabric that divided into legs, allowing her to shuffle delightedly from room to room like a beached mermaid. Her parents Etienne and Aya arrived with toothpicks handy in case they needed to prop their eyes open after a big Christmas Eve event the night before. And big  sister Emi spread her new Lego over the living room carpet and set to work.

All went well. The 20-pound turkey cooked in time and Etienne gallantly carved it with a bread knife, the only sharp knife in the house. Aya's desserts were perfect. The hats my friend Linda knit for the family were a big hit. Mia's new doll snapped at the knee, but there were no tears.

That's how Christmas 2025 went down at our house. Mellow is good. 

Etienne catches a few winks to the left, Aya with unwrapped hat, Mia cozy in her mermaid outfit and hat, and me to the far right.


The family group with Emi behind the couch.

This is a family that enjoys each other's company.

My friend Linda, wearing her own hat, with the happy recipients of her knitting. 

The family in coordinating hats. Mia seems especially pleased with hers.

A little extra something from Linda's knitting needles -- two woolly sheep for Mia and Emi. 

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Turning a festive corner and finding yourself

 

John in front of a Christmas tree full of surprises.

We were going to give West Vancouver’s Forest of Miracles a miss. It’s a parade of dozens of Christmas trees on the Dundarave waterfront, decorated by various businesses and organizations as a charity drive, and we’ve seen it many times.

But come on, I said to John. “They put a lot of effort into this. The least we can do is look.”

It was the usual display; construction hats on the builder’s tree, symbols of faith on the church’s tree, and so on. But partway down one of the rows, John stopped and pointed at something: “That’s my grandmother!” he said.

Imagine finding your old family photos on a tree on the Dundarave waterfront.

“No!” I said. A closer look revealed a laminated photo of a woman peeking over a pile of presents in her lap. “You’re making that up!”

“And that’s me! With the accordion!” John was pointing to another photo, this of a youth with an early-Elvis hairdo, sitting with an accordion in a threatening-to-play position.

“That’s not you! It can’t be.” John, Mr. Cool, with an accordion! Even more unbelievable, the guy who’s been staging a losing battle with hair loss since age 17 with a pompadour!

Here's John with his accordion in his grandparents' living room. 

And his grandmother with gifts up to the chin.

Yes, all true. We’d happened on a tree sponsored by the West Vancouver Historical Society. The old family photos were some that John had donated to the archives many years ago.

 He still has copies of these photos himself, but it was something, coming across them unexpectedly in a public venue like that.

Suddenly, there was his Scottish grandmother, she of the unforgettable scones, in the living room of the West Vancouver house built room by room by his grandfather. And John himself, before I knew him, with a musical instrument he soon abandoned, with a hairdo soon replaced by a crewcut for his track days. And surrounding them both, photos of old Christmas décor and concerts, papa carving the turkey, and family gatherings that spoke of a simpler, more basic era.

Message to John:  When you’ve grown up in a place, it’s worth taking a few extra minutes to tour the trees. You just might turn a corner and find yourself.

The West Vancouver Historical Society tree was just one of many in the charity fundraising event. We could have easily have missed it!